So everyone who was previously reading this blog has possibly forgotten about me because I’ve slacked off and been having too much fun for the past three weeks.
So lots and lots to talk about!
So I’d like to think I’ve settled in really well here, but it’s not like it’s been very hard. What with the kebab and hot dog caravans all over the city and the clothing stores it’s probably been a little too easy. Also the fact that I’m constantly surrounded with people from France, Spain, Australia, Tasmania(I know Tasmania is part of Australia but everyone knows those crazy Tasmanians are ‘different’.) not the mention a handful of Swedes who live in the building. I also met a guy from my uni who I emailed before I came over. He decided to stay on for the year, leave Sydney Uni and live here as an international student. I don’t blame him.
Over the past three weeks, for the majority I’ve been attending a Swedish for beginners language class. They have been on every day from 9-12. We had our diploma/graduation ceremony last night which was fun and it’s good to finally be done with the class, not that didn’t enjoy the class, but waking up at 9am every day for 3 weeks killed me. I don’t know what’s more surprising, the fact that I now understand basic swedish or that I woke up at 9am. Prior to these classes I had no idea a 9am even existed. I stand corrected.
The classes were really good; our teacher was really helpful and she trained us more to live in Malmö rather than for the end of course exam which was great. She even recommended places for us to eat/drink/get a cheap haircut/visit in Sweden. I’m considering applying for the continuers course too, depending on my timetable. Which by the way right now remains very vague; a tad worrying seeing as though classes start next week. I think I’ve got it worked out though!
So amongst all the studying, there has of course been a lot of partying. Alex and I have become the resident DJ’s of our building(read: noise polluters). The worst part about us having parties on our floor is that when you visit the kitchen in the morning it just looks like a bomb hit. My timing was perfect on a day after a party when I saw the cleaner walk into the kitchen and collapse on his knees and scream NOOOOOO or Nejjj!!(because he’s Swedish). OK not really but you could so tell he was thinking it.
We’ve had a few birthdays already which have been fun, and the student pub opened the other night so it was good to get out of student housing and hang with the locals(despite most of the people there being international students)…yeah, locals.
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I’ve found that it’s really easy to get caught up in the exchange student crowd. It’s kind of like a security bubble that most people have crawled back into after weeks of independent traveling. I think most people just crave the company. On the flip side I really do enjoy living in student housing and I wouldn’t have it any other way because I’ve met so many nice people who without, meant this trip would have been at least 64% less fun. In saying that I didn’t come to Sweden to hang out with Aussies and such. What keeps ringing in my head is the comments of past people who have travelled to Malmö from Sydney and a lot kept saying the same thing “I wish I met more Swedish people”.
Meanwhile, we’ve also done some road trips just around the Skåne area. We’ve visited neighbouring Lund which is a university city where the students make up 1/3 of the population. The university is really old and famous and the city is really nice a cosy, I liked it. Have also visited Ystad, another neighbouring town which was also really interesting to check out, though I recollect walking into an H&M there(Don’t look at me like that. They may have had different clothes.[They didn’t]).
Which brings me to my next point, people here dress really really well. It’s like they agreed on having good taste. I think my favourite thing about Swedish fashion is that transcends age and they don’t feel that they have to be a certain age to wear something. A lot of the middle aged women dress like the young girls and I’ve lost count of the number of middle aged men I’ve seen with skinny Cheap Monday jeans. The craziest part is that they pull it off too, everyone here is really fit; everyone having a bike probably has something to do with it. I know I’m feeling the burn because I bought a bike too! It’s so cool and a lot of fun, I’m surprised that other countries don’t embrace it, though I can’t imagine riding a bike in Sydney.
So to something that everyone always asks me, even my aunt, everytime she talks to me; are the Swedish blondes as pretty as everyone says. Yes, yes they are. People, especially the girls really take pride in their appearance, double edged sword but hey it’s their thing. Also, in the first couple of weeks, we had a lecture about Sweden and the Swedes and there was something about them being really quiet and reserved but still very nice. I really think that’s half true, they are kind of quiet but I think no more than anybody else. The only really weird thing is they don’t have a word for ‘please’ and everyone is kind of taken back when I apologise for bumping into them. Not to say they’re rude but they’re not fussed about that kind of thing. Oh and everytime I’ve said no to a plastic bag, the person serving me freaks out; No Bag?!!!!!!!!!
Back to the point, I’ll back that they’re really nice. The other day I bought some new shoes, I wore them out that night and the right sole busted up a bit. People told me I was dancing like a maniac but I’ve danced like a maniac plenty of times and my shoes have never broken. Anyway, I took it back to the store and the guy offered me a more expensive pair which I liked and bought, but he ended up giving me the semi-busted ones for free. Score. I don’t know if that justifies that they are nice but it was a nice story.
So it’s Saturday morning, and it’s sunny! The weather in incredibly unpredictable here so I think I’m going to go capitalise on it!
Hope everyone is well!
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Hej Då,
Karan